A Disconnected World

How many of your neighbors do you know? Do you spend time with them? I know the names of maybe 4 of our neighbors. If I happen to see them when I'm leaving or returning, I might say "hi". The other day one of my dogs "ran" away next door when he heard people. Drew and I went over and talked for a good 30-45 minutes with them...something that wouldn't have happened unless we were chasing our run-away dog.

How many times have you brushed someone aside or only half listened to them because you were busy? You were playing a game, reading something, or watching a TV show, and you found your attention couldn't be averted fully away from what you were doing, even for just a few minutes, in order to connect with whoever it was that was seeking your attention.

How many meals have you eaten with another person without saying more than a few sentences? How many times have you ridden in the car with others and hardly said a word? How many times have you just failed to connect to other people in your world?

I'm sorry to admit that I have been guilty of not connecting. Time and time again. There have been times I'd rather send an email or a card than have a telephone conversation. There have been times I'd rather spend time alone than take the effort and time to listen or pay attention to someone else.

We are living in one of the most technologically advanced societies of the world. We have everything we need and most everything we want. We have every convenience and comfort we could dream of. We are blessed.

But we are disconnected. We have become a society of individuals. And this is tragic.

We are designed to be connected. We were designed to be connected to God, to our earth, to God's creatures, and to each other. But somehow it's become easier for us to function without the hassle of those connections. We're all about what's convenient and comfortable. If God works in ways that are inconvenient or uncomfortable for us, we turn against Him. We blame Him for upsetting our way of doing things. We don't respect Him. If something in our earth is inconvenient or uncomfortable, we "fix" it. We find a way to ignore it, change it, or replace it so that we can be comfortable again. We don't respect our earth. If one of God's creatures has made things inconvenient or uncomfortable for us, we kill it, abuse it, neglect it, abandon it, or drive it away. We don't respect the animals. And if someone doesn't fit our agenda and our time frame, we reject him or her, and expect to be understood as being busy or stressed. If a relationship no longer suits our wants or needs, we discard it.

What are the consequences of this attitude? We are disconnected. We are depressed. We are dysfunctional. We are destroying ourselves and everything around us.

I'm not okay with this. I'm vowing to make an effort to connect and to respect everyone and everything around me. I'm not connected and I'm going to change that. God help me.